• New Vision

    New Vision

    I never knew how poor my vision was until last week. I literally began the new month with a new outlook on life. This was thanks to my cataract surgery that removed the shield that was blocking my lens, and I got a new one that enabled me to see the world in a new light.

    It all began with a fall from a kerb in the middle of January. Of course, the pavement was a foot high ( in the wisdom of our urban planners), the road was dimly lit because the few and far between street lights were hidden in the lush greenery and of course , what I didn’t know then, my poor balance thanks to the cataract.

    So I went to the optician’s to get a new pair of glasses. After n just couldn’t get the focal length right and asked me to check with an ophthalmologist. And that led to the discovery of not just one eye but TWO with a cataract. Even though there was no emergency, the ophthalmologist suggested I get them both done as early as possible. Hence I had my first eye done on Saturday last and the second one just yesterday.

    Even the smallest cut can throw one’s life out of gear, and two consecutive surgeries meant at least two weeks off. But off from what? From housework, from cooking, from exercise, from socialising.

    It turned out to be quite a misconception.

    Cataract surgeries today are routine- almost as common as the flu. I remember when my father had his first cataract surgery; it was almost like an event. Since my brother was away, my mother insisted that I be around. I took two days off from my own household and toodled off to Pune. In those days, Medical insurance was only applicable to surgeries that involved an overnight hospital stay, so my dad was admitted the day before. He came out of the operating theatre looking like a pirate with a huge white bandage covering his eye. For the next few days, my mum had to peel back the dressing and put eye drops at regular intervals. A few days later the dressing was replaced by a pair of decidedly unflattering dark glasses. At night, he had to tape a plastic cup over the eye so that he didn’t accidentally touch the eye. This went on for forty days. During this time, he was also pretty much housebound. His movements at home were restricted too – no bending, no going near the fire. Television watching was restricted. All in all, it was a surgery that I hoped I would never have to undergo.

    My father-in-law’s surgery a decade later was slightly better. This time round, he didn’t need an overnight hospital stay to qualify for medical insurance. The lens he was fitted with was soft but for the rest of his life, I could see a glint of something shining in his eye.

    Fast Forward To Today

    My initial visit to Dr. Deepak Garg’s Eye Solutions was unplanned. a no-fuss, routine eye check-up, a slight deviation from my daily walking route. I had stepped in for an optometrist’s consultation, and when she found that I had a cataract, she called in the doctor for a look. He was horrified by the size of the cataract and showed me a pretty picture on the monitor. He immediately called up Anna Shetty and suggested an early solution.

    So last Saturday, I went on table for the first operation. I had some pre-op protocols to follow but once on the table, it was done in under ten minutes! The local anesthesia was literally dropped into my eye – no need for any poking or prodding. While both my eyes were covered, I was asked to keep them open and focus on the overhead light. Three, bright shining lights were washed over with a saline drip from time to time. It was like watching through a kaleidoscope. The balls morphed into clouds and fat, white worms dancing in the psychedelic strobe lights that changed from bursts of red, purple, blue, green and yellow. And suddenly all went still as the sharp, bright white lights came into focus. It was done.

    Instead of a white eye patch, I was given slick, transparent protective glasses and offered a cup of tea while I changed out of my autoclaved garb and into my streetwear. Since Anna Shetty was accompanying me, I picked up the medication and post-operative care instructions, waited for Prima Donna to pay the bill and went home with a clear eye.

    Small steps to Confidence

    I didn’t realise this, but before my surgery, I was slowly losing my confidence on the road. There were times when I didn’t realise that someone was so close to me. There were times when I felt wobbly while getting off the kerb. I was avoiding driving at night. I was hesitant to use staircases without railings. I used to squint and frown while reading and had started asking other people to read messages on my phone.

    Thanks to my new perfect vision, I can now reclaim my life.

    Ciao,

  • Memories of A coffee Morning

    I woke up at 4 this morning to make a cup of coffee for Prima Donna who was going away on a business trip. I put the coffee to perk in the electric coffee maker, and soon the air was filled with the aroma of a good coffee. It brought to mind a memory of making coffee, a very long time ago, a memory that comes to mind every time I make a cup of coffee early in the morning.

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    I can still remember it clearly, almost as if it were yesterday. Making coffee in the early morning hours while the rest of the household was still sleeping. Even the morning birds hadn’t begun chirping and the milk man hadn’t begun his delivery round.

    It was our annual family holiday to celebrate the end of yet another successful school year. This time we were visiting our family friends in Dehra Dun. My friend M and I were meeting after three years, and we wanted to spend every precious moment gossiping. So we woke up early and crept into the cold, dark kitchen to make ourselves a cup of hot coffee.

    We had no idea of how to make a cup of coffee. But we felt all grown up as M hunted for a pot and poured some cold milk into it. She was more grown up than I because she had just finished her school leaving exams two days before we arrived. I would be going back to my last year of school when we returned home.

    Confidently, she struck a match, and the gas flame came to life. I was in awe. She really had grown up! Adding some instant coffee and sugar to the milk, we watched the pot bubble and boil while the smell of coffee escaped into the air. She lowered the heat, allowing the coffee to brew some more. Then, pouring it into two cups, we wrapped our shawls tighter and sat outside on the steps waiting for the sun to rise.

    I can’t wait to meet her again later this week. We still have a lot to talk about.

    Ciao,

  • Another Challenge

    Another Challenge

    Sometime ago, I can’t remember when, I found that a number of my blogger friends had switched to SUBSTACK. So I joined SUBSTACK. But then I kind of felt like I’d betrayed WordPress so I didn’t really bother with the new platform.

    However, this morning I met a friend at the Gym who was all praise for Substack. And more than just praise, she threw me a challenge – to write a post everyday for a month on Substack and share it with her. So if you go to Substack, you will find me there for the rest of February.

    A New Friend

    Actually, over the weekend, I accidentally discovered a new friend . The AI assistant on Jetpack. For years I’d struggled with increasing my audience. After Write Tribe disbanded, Indiblogger shut shop and I just lost interest in Blogadda since I stopped hosting my own site with a paid subscription, the numbers dwindled to a single digit. Gradually, they grew to 38 but this was only because subscribers were WordPress Readers .

    What happened to my friend who were really my target audience ?

    They complained that there was no way they could subscribe to the blog.

    So I finally asked AI and got my answer. But more than the answer, I enjoyed the ‘dialogue’ with the robot. It not only seemed so human, but was indulgent and caring and made me feel that it really understood my predicament. It appreciated my humour and I felt like I was talking to a real live human. I signed off feeling happy and cheerful . I had a new friend!

    It was only when I shut down the machine did I realise that it was a robot !

    Such are the perils of Artificial Intelligence. It seems so authentic and real that one can get seduced into developing a relationship with it.

    Scary isn’t it ?

    Ciao

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