• Your face my lord, is like a book,

    wherein men may read strange matters

     

    These words spoken by Lady Macbeth to her husband, if I recollect from my slowly fading schoolgirl memory, can well be applied to a man’s bookshelf for what he reads is what generally appeals to him. A bookshelf, therefore, is like an MRI – an image of one’s thought process. 

    The bookshelf in our home is not so much a library as a repository of all reading material that ever came into this house. It all began almost a 100 years ago when my grandfather-in-law became a lawyer or was a student of law. I can’t exactly pin point at what point he bought the tomes that grace our shelves because his son, my own father-in-law is in his late eighties and can’t remember and my husband never knew his grandfather. But it would be safe to assume that those books were bought in the early 1900’s. Way back in the 60’s when the family home at Akola was still visited by family, different members of the family picked up what they considered “treasures” and took them back to their modern homes. What was left for my part of the family was several tomes of Ivan Turgenev, some red leather bound classics by famous authors such as R.L.Stevenson, a few volumes of Mahratta History by James Grant Duff and some year books of statistics of the Indian Empire, which are fascinating for sheer information.

    The next collection of books was my own parents’ in laws- she had novels by Neville Shute while he had books on war, military history and famous generals and battles, reflecting his passion for the Army to which he belonged. Then came the collection of my husband’s and mine – his mainly books on management and business heroes, sports, biographies and philosophy; mine largely contemporary fiction and books won as prizes at school and University, self help books, cookbooks. The last collection to join these shelves belonged to my girls and reflected the ideas of young women in the 80’s and 90’s.

    So our hodge-podge bookshelf is also like going back into a time warp.

    Books like medicines have a shelf life too and authors and genres come and go. When I look at titles by Louis L’Amour, James Hadley Chase, Ian Fleming, James Herriot, Arthur Conan Doyle, P.G Wodehouse, Arthur Hailey, Robert Ludlum, Leon Uris,Salman Rushdie, James Michener……….ooh I can just go on and on about all those authors whose works I had devoured all those years ago. The authors seem to have been lost in antiquity. 

    As for genres – I no longer find Erma Bombeck funny and actually wonder how I ever read her books. Similarly, seeing the hundreds of books on self help, meditation,yoga and spiritualism, I wonder whether they were of any help at all? 

    So today I am going to do a purge – get rid of all the books that have been just lying there. Indeed their shelf life is over!

     

  • The accident

    Write about your strongest memory of heart-pounding belly-twisting nervousness: what caused the adrenaline? Was it justified? How did you respond?

    Time they say is a great healer and we are biologically programmed to forget pain. But there are some memories that are hard to forget. One such memory that literally turned my insides out was my eighteenth birthday. I was officially becoming an adult and my mother and I were walking down to the temple. This was not normally the way I celebrated my birthday and little did I know how different the day was going to turn out.

    We walked down the lane and took the left to the temple. It was a Sunday morning and the normally crowded road was empty. Walking carefully on the side, my mother and I were engrossed in conversation when suddenly I felt her being pulled away from me. I screamed as she did when I found a car sweep her up and take her away from me. In a split second, she rolled off the bonnet and the car went on top of her, dragging her for a good twenty feet before coming to a halt. 

    I remember feeling icy cold, my stomach plummeting to my feet as I saw her feet thrashing below the car. All I could think was “God please let her be alive!” Within seconds a crowd suddenly appeared from nowhere and as I peered below my mother crawled out. She was dishevelled and shoeless with her arms sticking out funnily. Seeing my scared nd shocked 

  • So finally the house is limping back to normal. Limping because the work is not yet done but with only a little bit left to get finished, we are more or less back to normal. Normal for me is when my computer is working so once that is in place, I feel much better. But I still needed some retail therapy to make me feel even better and what better than Palladium at Phoenix Mills? I packed up a small goody bag for P and tucked him in the crook of my arm and set off for the mall. I had two items on my shopping list – a spaghetti storage jar and a face cream.

    Eternal Youth



    I am a real sucker for beauty products and am always ready to try out new products, especially those that promise to keep age lines away and clean up the age spots that gradually appear as you get older. 

    Three decades ago I was in a plane load of Estee Laudee ladies who were going to New York for a business trip. I was so impressed by their sales talk that by the end of the ride, I was converted to Estee Lauder’s magic formula Advanced Night Repair Serum. I was hooked onto this magic potion which used to come in a small brown bottle. I religiously applied the one drop dispensed with a dropper and loved smoothing it on my face….For many many years this was my beauty routine till my husband’s overseas business trips dried up and I had to rely on more local products. ( This was in the days before the Mall attack and invasion of foreign products onto our soil).

    Anti Aging and entrepreneurship? 

    I then switched on to Aviance largely lured by the prospect of becoming a multilevel marketing millionaire. But this was in the initial stages of door to door selling and there were not many takers for multi level marketing particularly in my city. Alas! I also realised that as a stay at home mom, I had no network to offload my products to and my sole customer was ME. So even though the products were well priced and effective, I had to abandon the dual package of day and night cream particularly since the outlet was not easily accessible and  I got fed up with making the trip to the suburbs to pick up my sole order.

    French secrets

    When the Malls opened up and brought along a range of luxury high end skin care products, I happily switched to Lancome’s Genefique when it became available in Mumbai. And then after seeing the radiating beauty of Kate Middleton, I switched to Lancome’s Visionnaire in the hope that some of her luminous skin tone would rub off on mine!

    Advanced GénifiqueVisionnaire

    I must say, I was very pleased with both Lancome’s products, in fact, I have been equally pleased with all the skin care products I have tried so far.

    The lure of Ayurveda and Swadeshi

    Last year while walking through the Mall, I was attracted by the soothing calm radiating out of the Forest Essentials store and went inside to check it out. The Sales lady tempted me with Soundarya, their night cream with 24 karat gold! Being a sucker for a new cream, I bought a jar, especially since my Visionnaire was over and I was toying with the idea of moving onto Lancome’s latest offering Dreamtone. This skin corrector comes in three shades but since I was short of time and couldn’t go through the process of finding which Dreamtone was appropriate for me, I gave it a skip and succumbed to the temptation of Forest Essential’s Soundarya. I am not very fond of creams having got used to applying serum so was hesitant to try out the entire package of two separate day and night creams so opted for the Eternal Youth formula of Date & Litchi.  I loved its smooth application and used it diligently by day and night. I must say I was quite surprised when the frown line between my eyebrows visibly smoothened out! Encouraged by this I wanted to buy the night cream.

    So yesterday I went to the Mall and bought their combination package of Soundarya Radiance Cream and its companion Advance Soundarya age defying facial serum with 24 karat Gold.  Last night I applied this for the first time and was a bit disconcerted with the fragrance. But the application was smooth and I felt a wonderful warm glow as I slept through the night.

    I am hoping that this magic formula will live up to its promises because at a price of  Rs. 3800 + Rs.2950 this was quite a hefty amount to dish out!

                           Soundarya Radiance Cream with 24 Karat Gold and SPF 25Advanced Soundarya age defying facial Serum  with 24K Gold

    So Dreamtone will have to wait for another few months till my Ayurvedic magic formula is over.

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