• With Mother’s Day literally round the corner now, several emails regarding mothers and motherhood have begun doing the rounds. I would like to share today a message that I got from a friend whose mother is currently in a state of dementia. With his father in and out of hospital, the poor guy and his family are trying their best to keep the parents comfortable.
    Many of my friends ( we are all now 50+) who are following the Indian tradition of taking care of one’s parents are facing this problem – elderly parents who can’t remember what has happened, parents who refuse to accept that they can’t do certain things and some parents who sit  staring vacantly in the distance. 
    What bothers us is not the looking after or the caring but the difficulty in accepting that those who once were strong caregivers are now helpless and lost. But all of them feel blessed that at least they still have someone they can call “Mom” or “Dad”. 
     
    So whenever you feel upset with your folks, or you wish them dead, this message (though cheesy) will remind you of the loving care you once got from them.
     
     

    A Newborn’s Conversation with GoGod
    A baby asked God, “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow,
    but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?”

    God said, “Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you.”

    The child further inquired, “But tell me, here in heaven I don’t have
    to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.”

    God said, “Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you.
    And you will feel your angel’s love and be very happy.”

    Again the small child asked, “And how am I going to be able to understand
    when people talk to me if I don’t know the language?”

    God said, “Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words
    you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will
    teach you how to speak.”

    “And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?”

    God said, “Your angel will place your hands together and will teach
    you how to pray.”

    “Who will protect me?”

    God said, “Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life.”

    “But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.”

    God said, “Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach
    you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you.”

    At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth
    could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, “God, if I am to leave
    now, please tell me my angel’s name.”

    God said, You will simply call her, “Mom.” 

    M- My 
    O- Only
     
    M- Mentor


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  • We were originally slated to go for lunch to Cafe Zoe this afternoon.  But early in the morning I learned that it was closed for renovation.  Hence we changed our  venue to Indigo Deli at Phoenix Mills.

    I was first introduced to Indigo and its style way back when it first opened. It was in a quaint bungalow in a tree shaded  by-lane off Colaba Causeway. In those days its stark clean no nonsense lines was tres avant garde. So  was its unique menu of  Western cuisine flirting mildly with Indian flavours. I loved the wide arm chairs in which one could rest by the bar  and didn’t mind  the hard bench on the long table .  For many years Indigo was our favourite dining spot especially in the winter months when we could partake of the joys of al fresco dining on a dark moonless night.

    Many Mumbaikars shared my sentiment and Indigo soon had to expand. Indigo Deli situated in the same neighbourhood was rather disappointing especially in its limited menu choices and it dark, mysterious ambiance. What particularly irritated me were the waiters who really treated the guests like morons who needed to be indulged. Luckily this culture does not prevail at the Indigo Deli at Phoenix which  is a delightful place to grab a meal in the middle of the day. Today four of us college friends met up at this eatery for a quick lunch. While we had every intention of going Dutch, people of my generation actually believe in chivalry.  So the only man amongst us picked up the tab though we did offer to pay our way.

    We started out with a yummy, cheesy, barbequed chicken thin crust pizza which we shared . I also  indulged in a deep fried calorie filled fish and chips. The fish was golden fried  and unidentifiable. It tasted distinctly frozen and  I finally understood why GSBs are so particular about eating Pomfret fresh off the boat.

    I’m not complaining though because the lack of taste was compensated by the good company and conversation. When friends meet after a long time food becomes secondary. I rounded off my meal with a quick dash into Fab India where we indulged in kurta shopping before I dashed across to the Canon shop on the 5th floor to find out why my camera was capturing white as pink. Apparently I had chosen the wrong setting. I am not yet convinced but I am willing to give this camera one more chance before accepting this verdict as final.

    Incidentally we found out that Cafe Zoe was not shut for renovation but actually ran into some licencing problems. If it is closed for renovation, I do hope that when it re-opens it has enough insect traps placed at strategic points so that we don’t have to wave off the fruit flies and house flies that flutter above the food.

  • What am I?

    “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” 
    ― E. James Rohn

    I don’t know who E. James Rohn is but I do know one thing :

    I hang out most with two senior citizens ( one 84 year old father in law and an 81 year old mother in law), my 53 year old maid servant, my 45 year old driver and one of my 50+ friends. Of course my 50+ husband does fit into this equation but the waking hours I spend with him in a single day hardly makes a dent .

    So what does that make me? A 63 year old retired maid cum driver cum middle aged matron?

    On what basis do motivational speakers make such remarks?

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