Twenty- five Seven

Personally speaking

Starting out with baby steps

Baby steps

[Tweet “When my first born stepped out into the world, I stepped into the blogosphere.”]

My first fledgling had flown the nest and was studying far away in Minnesota, in a world far removed from the one she had left behind. Instead of resorting to letters, I thought I would start a blog. One that would bring her cheer in her snow bound misery.

I thought it would be fun to recount the happenings in my life – going to the fish market , meeting Mr. Bad Temper , lunching with my buddies, my squabble with the tradesmen , etc etc in a light, breezy way.

And what’s more, everyone would be able to read my blog:

  • Members of my family who lived overseas.
  • My friends.
  • The world!

[Tweet “I actually had visions of being a superstar publisher like iVillage .”]

So I sat down on my computer and thought up clever lines. I exaggerated, embellished and sometimes was brutally frank. I imagined anyone reading it would have a hearty chuckle .

Diligently I would log onto my computer early in the morning ( it was still yesterday evening in America) and bang away on the key board . A quick spell check and publish . My post was out in the world for all to see.

Even my friends didn’t know I blogged!

Alas! For several years I blogged and plodded in anonymity and isolation. No one bothered to read my posts. No one bothered to react with a simple tick in the box ( those days I blogged on Blogger )

Occasionally a cousin would email a reaction but my friends? Most of them didn’t even have a computer at home!

If anyone asked me what I did the whole day I’d say I blog. They would look at me blankly and say ” What’s that?”

It was enough to make me want to give up

Day 2 of #UBC and #DailyChatter

8 responses to “Starting out with baby steps”

  1. Even now, my family members do not know I blog. They will come back with a ‘what’s that’ I am sure. But it is one of the best things that has happened to us, isn’t it?

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    1. I completely agree . I thought I was the only one facing this question. Feel better knowing that I’m not the only one doing this surreptitiously:)

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  2. Can’t wait to hear how your journey progressed.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by .

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  3. Mithila Menezes @fabulus1710 Avatar
    Mithila Menezes @fabulus1710

    Hahahaha, I remember the time when my friends didn’t know what blogging was. They still don’t understand everything that I do, but promptly read my posts when I ask / force them to :D

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    1. That’s a nice tactic …. but my friends just want me to read it out to them instead….

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  4. So glad you kept at it!!!

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