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An ordinary life

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There’s a pleasure in being reminded of the value of ordinary life. ~                                                                ~ Karen Thompson Walker

 

My mother tells me that it was a spicy samosa and a rocky rickshaw ride in Pune that made me want to come into the world several weeks before my time.Thankfully, after this dramatic entry into the world, the rest of my life has been very ordinary: in fact some would prefer to call it humdrum.

My  normal childhood replete with sibling rivalry and teenage angst was interspersed  with frequent re-locations to several places thanks to my father’s transferable job. But blessed with a fine brain and the ability to cope I enjoyed the itinerant lifestyle which, my daughter says, has made me commitment-phobic.

However, after a glorious academic career at school and college (where I won numerous prizes and accolades), I settled down to marriage with a man my mother had chosen for me, in my early 20’s and embarked on the traditional  journey of a million other women: marriage and motherhood with its moments of triumphs and utter despair, adjustments, compromises and happy occasions. I travelled continents, crossed seas, met with celebrities and ordinary people,  each day of my life different and unique.

During these years I also tried my hand at several professions – bespoke tailoring, private tutoring, freelance writing, Mumbai tour operator, French translator finally ending up as a General Factotum and Dogsbody, helping my husband in his pharmaceutical trading business. In the meanwhile my two wonderful girls grew up into two wonderful women, both competent professionals in highly demanding jobs.

Today as a wibbly-wobbly grandmother in her early 60’s I am actively participating in the rearing of three adorable toddlers who have me crawling on my knees and keeping pace with their overactive imaginations and high levels of energy.

So this is my story – ordinary yet extraordinary enriched by the presence of  friends and family.

‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’

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11 responses to “An ordinary life”

  1. I loved your writing style – the words just flow and weave a very sweet tale; I travelled the world and years through them.

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    1. thanks for this very sweet comment!

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  2. Warm birthday greetings in advance, Sunita. You’re a remarkable lady, so full of joie de vivre and open to change and learning. May the next 60 years be equally blessed! :)

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    1. Thanks for your kind words and wishes Corinne! I turn 60 next year so I still have one year left of not being a ‘senior citizen’ :)

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  3. Every story is extra ordinary and unique. Wising you all the best for the road ahead.

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    1. I’m glad you thought it extraordinary —- I thought it was pretty humdrum

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  4. No ordinary story, this! Extraordinary yes in it’s own ordinary way.More power to you!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and appreciating!

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    2. Thanks for stopping by and your generous comment

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  5. You are one wonderful lady and one of the bloggers I admire and love to connect with. In this post, I really loved the way how you shared your life in just a few words. It may look like a normal ordinary day to day life but yes, there is certainly more to it. Stay blessed! :)

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    1. Thanks Meera. I think we are scratching each other’s backs here ! I enjoy your subtle sense of humour …. and thanks for your compliments and good wishes

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