• Today is the penultimate Monday of the year . The beginning of a week that is winding down to the end of the year.

    Somehow, at this time of year, I find myself doing an internal audit . It’s the time to reflect, ponder and plan for the year ahead.

    • What made me happy this year?
    • Did I achieve my own targets?
    • What challenges did I face ?
    • How many books have I read ?
    • Did I learn any new skills?

    As I stand before the mirror on the wall in my mothers’s bedroom, I feel inordinately happy.

    This mirror is one that makes you look good . And if you look good you feel good . You could say it is deceptive but today I want to hear that I’m the fairest in the land like Snow White’s wicked step mother.

    Because I didn’t always feel good every day of this year .

    It has been a tumultuous year where the minutes compressed to seconds and the days passed by in a whizz.

    It has been life changing. It was the year I learnt to :

    Adapt to new situations at home

    Reconnect with old school friends

    Discover new friendships from the virtual world

    Accept things for what they are

    Explore new Social Media platforms like Instagram and Pinterest

    Understand more about blogging

    Enjoy the company of my family

    Establish new relationships with long lost cousins

    Count my blessings.

    Thanks 2018!

    Ciao

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    It’s the end of the week and how I wish I could reach out, wrap my hands around that steaming hot cup of tea and curl up with a nice book.

    Yes, as Ripley would say, believe it or not,  but after the fourth Christmas celebration this year, I feel that Christmas is already over!

    It all started with the party at the Club last Friday. To say the children had a blast was putting it mildly. They had the best time of their little lives. Wow Dinga was thrilled because some of his school mates were around. The three of them spent hours jumping on the Bouncy castle and chasing each other all over the place. When he got tired of his friends, I could see him sitting on the tiny train ride, waiting for the next brain wave to hit him.

    Ms. Papaya had her mother to look after her so I kept a watchful eye on Little Po who is so tiny that he can easily slip away.

    That night while the kids slept, Santa was making his way to our house. We had left the gifts under the tree as decoration. But the kids would have nothing of it. They were excited with their gifts in their stockings, yet tore open their gifts wrapped so carefully the night before.

    Christmas gifting continued with overseas uncles and aunts bringing more biscuits, chocolates and toys. This was followed by a family lunch where all the children were given the run of the TV room so that they were kept out of harm’s way. It also served to keep them out of our hair.

    Yesterday evening was the Christmas Concert at the little ones’ nursery school and Little Po was one of the three kings. Ms. Papaya was upset that there Queens did not visit the infant Jesus.  Luckily, she had a leading role in a group dance and was thrilled to be a Rajput Princess.

    Daughter No. 1 got the kids together to assemble the Gingerbread house to grace our Christmas Breakfast table. Alas! The kids were so excited with the result that they ate up one half of the roof already!

    And this morning, just before schools closed for the holidays, the children had one more celebration where Santa drove in atop a white Mercedes SUV! This was followed by a wonderful juggling show and some song and dance routines by the parents.

    So with yet another Christmas celebration over, the pudding is already eaten and half the bonbons over, I’m already exhausted!

    It is no wonder that I need that strong cup of tea.

    Do you find yourself exhausted as this year is winding down? Do you feel you’ve had one too many Christmas parties?

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  • There is life after cancer

    Any empty nester will tell you that it when the first fledgling leaves the nest , the feeling of abandonment / being lost is greatest.

    Over 10 years ago, when my eldest left not only home but our shores, I was deeply disturbed.

    That’s when I joined up with St Jude India ChildCare Centres as a volunteer. Those days the centre was small – 8 kids only . But by the next year the children had doubled. In fact the growth was fantastic and today SJICC became pan India.

    For many years I was closely associated with the Centre and reluctantly had to step away when my grandchildren came on the scene .

    Yet I couldn’t make a clean break.

    On Friday our first batch of children came back to visit, I did so want to meet them but unfortunately I was totally caught up with the Christmas celebrations .

    However, the occasion was covered by INDIAN EXPRESS .

    Oncologists say childhood cancers are highly curable if circumstances don’t cause treatment to be stopped midway. So St Jude’s role in offering a physical living space and emotional support is critical, the parents agree. Then there are the tips the young former patients share.
    — Read on indianexpress.com/article/cities/mumbai/reunion-for-st-jude-childcare-centres-batch-of-2006-all-survived-cancer-now-ready-to-inspire-other-children-5496522/

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