• Today Ms Papaya will tie two special rakhis for her superhero brothers .

    Rakhi or RakshaBandhan is not essentially a Maharashtrian festival but like everything else, has become pan-Indian thanks to the cultural invasion of Bollywood.

    I actually remember celebrating this day as Coconut Day with my home being redolent with the smell of coconut barfi and sweet coconut rice .

    Rakhis then and Rakhis now

    But Coconut Day has now been forgotten in favour of Raksha Bandhan or Rakhi Poornima.

    And the simple twisted silken thread symbolising the Rakhi has changed with the adoption of vivid colours and embellishments like glitter and glam.

    And today, it has Superheroes from Marvel!

    The story of Rakhi

    The origin of tying a Rakhi is lost in antiquity. Some people say it has its origin in the Mahabharata – when Krishna promised to come to Draupadi’s aid as a mark of gratitude when she helped him . And that is how when she was being disrobed, her sari went on and on …..

    There are many other stories but I’m not familiar with them.

    As far as I know, it is a band that symbolise the pledge of protection a brother makes to his sister . Oftentimes, the Rakhi is exchanged between non-siblings who consider each other as brother and sister. This is a particularly innovative brush off for a girl who wants to maintain the friendship of a boy without the promise of a more permanent or deeper relationship.

    Tie a Rakhi to prevent a rape

    In fact , it is this tactic that prompted the preposterous suggestion that to avoid a situation like Nirbhaya (the horrific 2012 gang rape that shook the world) , the girl should tie a Rakhi to the man who is perpetuating this dastardly act !

    Really now, isn’t that the most ridiculous idea?

    But today is a happy day and I’m off now to eat up my freshly made coconut barfi and watch Ms Papaya tie a Rakhi to Wow Dinga and Little Po. We may even stop off at Marine Drive and cast a coconut into the sea .

    Happy RakshaBandhan and Happy Coconut Day to all!

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  • As Kerala is recovering from the devastating floods, I am grateful for this calm monsoon sky in my part of the world.

    Last week the rains played havoc in the Southern state of Kerala. One of my schoolmates was rescued from his home after three days of crouching on top of his bookshelf! He drank the rain water that came through his open roof and had a rat and a snake for company.

    After being taken to the safety of his cousin’s home he is now back cleaning his house of 4″ of silt. But, as he says, he is one of the lucky ones: there are so many who have been rendered homeless and worse still – dead .

    The rains are still not officially over but with Coconut Day coming up, we should be seeing less vigorous activity.

    Happy weekend all!

    Join up with me and other bloggers on #SkywatchFriday.

    Ciao

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  • “What’s that ? ” I asked Mrs D whom we visited this Tuesday.

    “It’s to keep away the flies,” was the explanation she offered for the water filled plastic bags that decorated her balcony.

    I was gobsmacked hearing this explanation for what I thought was a new artistic installation in her home.

    Aren’t you amazed too ?

    Apparently it does work as there wasn’t a single fly in her house !

    Sharing this with Natasha and Esha on #WordlessWednesday.

    I know this post is late but on Wednesday it refused to load up :(

    Ciao and happy weekend all !

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