• Celebrating Ganesh

    Long before it became environmentally fashionable, I’ve been celebrating the festival of Ganpati with my tiny silver idol. It all started with the aim of introducing my children to some of our traditions which tend to get lost in the day to day course of living. Initially we used to keep out the idol for all ten days during which time the girls would happily sing the ‘aarati’, enthusiastically decorate the spot where we kept the Ganpati and vigorously ring the bell and clang the tiny cymbals. However, as they grew older, my mother-in-law felt it more prudent to keep the idol out for just the day and a half because even if our idol was not a family tradition, she still felt we needed to observe certain practices while Ganesha was at home (being vegetarian, not imbibing alcohol, doing the puja twice a day) which may have been hard to adhere to and rather than risk the wrath of God with certain lapses albeit unintentional, we began keeping the Ganpati for just a day and a half.

    Last year ,with the house bereft of children, I wondered whether we should bring out the Ganpati at all but Hubby Dear insisted that we did and so last year’s Ganesh festival was not as exciting as this year’s since it would be  Wow Dinga’s first Ganesha festival. I could hardly  wait to see his reaction to everything – the flowers, the lights, the bells and of course the modaks.
    I spent the better part of Hartilaka (the eve of the festival) shopping for floral decorations and was shocked at some of the astronomical figures that the florists seemed to quote so effortlessly. I was also amazed at the new fangled decorations – floral arches made of either real orchids dyed in hideous colours or blatantly plastic flowers that would far outlast the festival.

    Despite the innovative use of roses and orchids, I still prefer the traditional garlands made out of seasonal flowers like marigold and mogra. Sadly the market didn’t have any of Ganesha’s favourite blooms – red hibiscus and red balsam.

    With our Ganesha now back in the cupboard, I will spend the next few days visiting the community Ganesha in different neighbourhoods which I hope to capture with my new camera.

  • A dear friend

    Hello darkness my old friend,

    It’s been a long time since last we met
    When you came knocking at my gate
    To let you in , so desperate
    To see me.

    At one time you were a regular
    soul mate who understood my every mood
    my angst, my grief , my anxiety.
    You were the one who said it was ok to cry all day, all night even
    Every moment of the day
    Till all the sadness in my heart very slowly ebbed away.
    You stayed beside me 
    Close inside me
    Wrapping yourself round every cell
    With a cold chill that strangely  thrilled me
    For that was what I needed then.
    Sometimes I miss you
    Especially when my heart soars high
    With happiness
    A lightness of spirit that lifts me up
    The gurgling laughter that keeps you out
    So firmly from my mind and life.
    I’m glad you’ve found yourself another
    to keep you company in your dark world.
    And yet I know you’re somewhere lurking
    and take comfort in the fact
    You’re around.
    I know that someday you will come back
    Unannounced
    In the middle of my busiest day
    In the middle of my happiest moment
    When it’s most inconvenient to have you there.
    It’s nice to know  you’ll never leave me
    Always there my trusted friend
    And because of you and your shadowy presence
    I appreciate the joy of every day.

    This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.

  • Finding the perfect gift for any one is always a brain teaser particularly if the person you are buying the gift for is a very simple man. Frankly there is no such thing as a simple man and you’d be the fool for believing him when he tells you he’s a simply guy; but this isn’t about whether a man is simple or not, it is about buying the perfect gift for your perfect man because quite simply a simple man is simply perfect!

    For many years I used to think that a book makes the perfect gift for anyone (simple or otherwise), the kind of book depending on the person you are gifting the book to. With millions of topics and millions of books at various price points and levels of intellectual appeal, buying a book was pretty much a no-brainer till suddenly it became fashionable to read  books online.

    So the next best thing to gift a simple guy is a simple gadget which most men love unless they are technophobes (which obviously your simple guy is not is he??). And with new gadgets coming out by the minute, this too is quite an easy task. All you have to do is make sure that the gadget is made by a reliable manufacturer and will be of interest to your perfect man after all there is no point in buying the best camera if he just hates standing in front or behind a lens.

    If your perfect man is not too fussy about buying his own clothes you could gift him any garment from a classy shirt to a simple handkerchief but if you are doubtful about his reaction to that purple T you think will suit him to a T, it would be best to go for something he needs desperately like a pair of black socks which never really go out of style.

    Today I found the perfect gift for the perfect man  in a shop which is truly the only one of its kind in Mumbai.

    Truefitt & Hill which claims to be the world’s oldest barber shop is a shop catering for a man who has it all – and won’t your simply perfect man be having it all? – is not a mere barber shop, it is a barber shop with a difference.

    A chance visit to this place at the side of Regal cinema in Colaba was like walking through time in a bye gone era when gentlemen dressed like gentlemen albeit of the British variety. Apart from the haircut which is no ordinary haircut, the shop offers a wide range of men’s colognes and after shaves, shaving products and accessories, Barker’s shoes and belts, cufflinks, cigars and doodads like a round ice ball maker (perfect for a single malt that needs to be drunk chilled but not diluted). Needless to say nothing in this shop is even remotely cheap, after all it counts royalty amongst its clients but it is definitely the place to go to if you’re looking for the perfect gift for your perfect man. There is bound to be something that would appeal to him with the variety of things available and don’t fret if he is not into luxurious shaving gear or colognes, you could gift him one of their special grooming services…..if nothing else, a simple hair cut!

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