• A tea party for Ganpati

    Today we were invited to a tea party – a party with a difference. Unlike an English Tea party, this one had a distinctly Indian touch with the main purpose being to pay our respects to the Ganpati Wow Dinga’s family brought home every year for his ten day sojourn in their house. Tea parties, quintessentially English seem to be at odds with Ganesha who is as exotic and Indian as it can get but this was by far the most enjoyable Ganpati darshan I’ve had in a long time.

    We trooped in a little after half past four thanks to a traffic hold up but our hosts were none too worried by this slight delay. After paying our respects to the idol, we sat down for a spot of conversation before settling down to a cup of tea. And what a tea it was!

    A silver tea service sat demurely in one corner of the table which was laid out with Royal Doulton china – quarter plates and tea cups with ever so fine ears , in dull orange, bordered with a delicate gold trim. We sat behind the waiting plates and soon the goodies came out – sandwiches and cutlets, crisply fried bhajias with a sweet and sour tamarind chutney, the bite sized besan ladoos and the Dish of the Day –  patolya – a steamed rice flour pastry stuffed with fresh coconut and jaggery.

    How I miss this kind of entertainment – the old fashioned tea party where one could spend a few hours of the afternoon in pleasant company and share a cup of tea.

    This is the 6th post in the Write Tribe September Challenge

  • My Teachers

      “teachers should be the best minds in the country”.
                                            Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan

    On 5th September every school child in India celebrates Teachers’ Day. When I was a school girl, this was the day when the Teachers were given a day “off” and we students took their place in front of the class, dressing up like grown ups for the day. The Teachers of course were around in school but it was a fun day where they took a back seat , enjoying the simple gift of a rose that we all presented them with and relaxing in the Staff Room waiting for the lunch treat that  the PTA would organise for them ; and at the end of the day we all felt happy – the teachers for being made to feel special and the children for an unexpected fun day at school. This pattern I think continues even today – where children show their appreciation for their teachers.

    I was blessed to have had wonderful teachers who not only taught us well but opened our minds to the world and taught us how to think. My teachers went beyond the call of duty and an incident I can never forget is when my  Class teacher  in Std 3 made a field trip of “Visit to the Hospital”. It was the middle of the monsoons and I was operated for an emergency appendectomy. I still remember how thrilled I was to see my class mates troop in to see me in the middle of a gloomy, wet morning, each with a small packet of biscuits and a fruit and a lovely Get Well Soon card (which they had made during art class) with cheery messages scribbled in . I was away from school for almost a fortnight and I missed school especially since those were the days without telephones and I felt happy when I saw those cards placed around my bed. For me it was a real tonic and for the rest of my school mates it was a lesson in caring which none of us ever forgot.

    For my teachers what mattered was not the syllabus or the portion or even success in examinations – what they really wanted to know was whether we had understood what they were trying to teach. In our time, there was no such thing as “tuitions” but teachers did help weaker students voluntarily, giving extra work and spending extra time. I remember one of our Math’s teachers who painstakingly made up worksheets for us to do over the long summer holidays and would give them back to us with corrections and explanations written ever so carefully in the margin.

    Teachers would give back papers with comments of appreciation or with sarcastic remarks – showing that they had read each word with care. Completely dedicated to their students, there would always be a teacher on duty who would stay back till the last child went home, sometimes keeping the child with him/her in the Staff Room chatting over a cup of hot tea and biscuits, reassuring him that his parent would come.

    Reading the horrifying things that are happening in schools these days, I can only thank my stars that I had the teachers that I did.

    This is my 5th post for the Write Tribe September Challenge

  • Well I’m all for E governance and E commerce but what do you do if you dont have “E” t?

    Last month I had a major confrontation with my gas distributor. It seems that the gas is no longer booked at the distributors but has to be booked online directly with the supplier which in my case happens to be Bharat Gas. Now that was another frustrating experience since the gas is registered on my father-in-law’s name and he has given the number of a mobile phone which he has long since discontinued.

    I managed to get the cylinder by actually screaming at the distributor , threatening to report her unsupportive customer service to Bharat Gas, the Gas provider. Sadly, this hysterical and completely deplorable behaviour on my part made sure that the gas was delivered to me on the very same day – something that has never happened before.

    I quite forgot about updating the customer profile with the Gas Provider till this morning when I had to ask for the gas yet again. This time round I found out that even if I didn’t have a mobile phone, I still had to tell the gas provider that I didn’t have one………so I had to make my father-in-law who is all of 86 go to the Gas Distributor and fill in the requisite form with requisite documents to prove his existence, the authenticity of his request etc etc etc.

    All this is something quite intimidating for a consumer who doesn’t have any access to any E equipment. For instance, what if a consumer doesn’t have a computer or a mobile, does that mean he cannot get in touch with the gas company or distributor? And considering that so many middle class and lower middle class homes actually use cooking gas, doesn’t this smack of elitism? Or are we so advanced as an economy that everyone is online ?

    This is my 4th post for the Write Tribe September Challenge

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