• Highs and Lows

    I’ve been really very very busy these past few days which have gone by in a whirl………..

    I was part of a wedding sangeet and danced for the very first time on stage in front of a hundred people. I am not really one for song and dance though I enjoy both immensely in the privacy of my room and I was shocked that I went through the whole routine with not a trace of stage fright and loving every moment of the wiggling and jiggling!  I am seriously considering taking a Bollywood dance class once a week

    The wedding that I attended was a simply stupendous affair with the hosts doing everything to make their guests comfortable right from personally receiving us at the airport to welcoming us with marigold garlands, chocolates and the traditional “tikka”. Our welcome lunch was a lavish Champagne brunch set out under canopies scattered over a grassy lawn. After a quick siesta, we were driven across to a palace in the city where we were given a right royal welcome with drummer boys announcing our entry, girls showering us with rose petals and kilted bagpipers entertaining us in the outer courtyard. Once we entered the main courtyard we were transported to another fairy land with lights and candles and floral pathways. There was a palpable energy which was translated to the high level  performances of the family and friends of the groom and bride. The DJ who actually had a pulse on the crowd got everyone on the dance floor even the bride’s normally reticent father!

    The next morning we woke up to a leisurely breakfast followed by an equally lazy lunch before setting off in festooned boats to the wedding venue in the middle of the lake. Once again the magic was recreated with stunning floral arrangements ( peacocks made with white orchids) and as the bride and groom exchanged vows with the setting sun in the back ground, there was not a dry eye in the crowd. But weddings are happy occasions and as soon as the couple went round the fire, the bar was open and the crowd was ready to party yet once again……..I simply loved this destination wedding. The food was lavish, the events well planned and the guests happy.

    But festivities have to come to an end and reality raised its ugly head with  Hubby Dear having a dizzy spell and the spectre of another TIA looming in the shadows yet again………….

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  • iPad woes

    Call me dumb but I must be one of the few people who haven’t fallen in love with my iPad. In fact I am seriously finding this one gadget that has increased my stress levels.

    All those years ago when computers were just about making their way into people’s  homes, I remember my five year old niece from America asking me what I wanted a computer for. At that time I was quite aghast at her effrontery especially since she had just got herself gifted a PC by her indulgent father. So when I told her that I wanted one to place my trusty old typewriter, she just sniffed in condescension .

    However, I persisted in my demand, as I persisted in my learning and I’m pleased and proud to say that I mastered this technology all on my own. Of course it helped that I asked around for help from time to time and adopted the strategy of a teenage boy – go ahead and tinker with whatever you want; after all when things go wrong Dad picks up the tab! While my Dad did not pick up the tab, this attitude of being young and fearless helped me attain a proficiency in a technology few of my generation or gender have managed without any formal training.

    Thus, having considered myself to be a genius of sorts, I find it completely frustrating to use an iPad .

    • The Internet is not always easily accessible : at least the signal is not always strong. I live almost 500 m away from the MTNL building yet find it hard to get Network. I find a similar problem with wifi.
    • Typing on a touch pad is extremely frustrating for someone like me who likes to hear the tap tap of keys
    • Navigating the screen is another problem with my fat fingers not synchronising with the screen. Unlike the old fashioned key board with its up and down keys, I find it hard to go back and forth in a document .
    • I can’t connect to Zemanta and find the iPad very inconvenient for Blogging.
    • I hate the idea of downloading apps. I mean if every time you want to do something you have to down load it does become inconvenient especially when some applications require wifi for downloading! This I find extremely frustrating especially since my service provider doesn’t supply wifi. This means that I have to lug my iPad to a place which allows wifi.
    • Since I don’t listen to music or watch movies, I find no real use for these functions.
    • Similarly, I find it cumbersome to point my iPad and shoot! Moreover when the photos are not all that great.
    • I find the iPad not very convenient to carry around either. It is not that small to fit in a small bag and it is too delicate to carry just as it is.
    • And since it can’t be used as a phone it is not multi functional either.
    So I really wonder of what use is the iPad to me? 
    A word of caution to all those wanting to “upgrade” to this technology – be absolutely sure you want this gizmo. You are better off with a Notebook or Tablet if you just want to type and as for photographs and music and movies  – you can’t really replace the camera, the music system and of course the big screen movie experience.

  • Valentine’s Day

    The Club had never looked better. With red and gold swags, silver angels and holly wreaths it just screamed festivity. And with everyone twirling around in lounge suitsbandhgalas, gowns and saris, it looked almost magical , a fairy land in an every day world. That was where it all began perhaps at the exact moment when the couples on the dance floor literally melted into each other, swaying gently, almost hypnotically to Eric Clapton’sWonderful Tonight“, when the lights went off for the last slow dance before the count down to the New Year.  Clapton’s velvet voice always made Neha’s heart take a dive and when she saw Prerna and Vivek moving as one, she felt the first twinge of regret of being single to mingle . “How I wish I was dancing in the arms of the man I love,” she sighed and buried her head in the poky jacket  of the man she was dancing with and wished that she was in the arms of Mr. Perfect, the Man of her Dreams.  At that exact moment,she was determined that this would be the last New Year’s she’d be solo and from that day on, Neha had made it her singular mission to never dance “alone”.

    So, like the Strategic Marketeer that she was,little Ms. Perfect aka as Neha Tiwari , set about getting Mr. Right into her sights. And who better than Prem Diwanji , the investment banker on the fifteenth floor, with his perfect suit , perfect manners, and perfect diction:  the perfect little “Pooh Bear ”  to nuzzle up to?

    All through January, she timed her entry into the building making sure that Prem and she went up in the same lift .She loved the way he allowed her to go first, and after the initial shy smile, they were soon exchanging a witty repartee . Within days it became apparent  that a romance was building up. The watchman would give her a ” knowing salaam”, the chai wallas would have a slight smirk and it came as no surprise to either of them when Prem asked her out on a  date.

    ” Are you doing anything special on Valentine’s Day?” he asked her one morning in the lift, trying to keep his tone casual and off handish.

    “Nothing much,” she replied, equally coolly  sure that he could hear her heart beat faster ”  Just the  usual –  hang out with my friends at Jeffry’s or Leo’s. Just one or two drinks and then we go home or may be if there’s a good chick flick we’d take that in.”

    ” Oh, then it won’t be hard for you to ditch them will it?”

    “Ditch them and do what?”, she said trying hard to be blase and cool.

    “Have a romantic dinner date with me.”

    And that was it! Thirty days was all it took to get a guy? Trying not to sound too pleased and struggling to act calm, she feigned indifference and said, “Ok. Where to?”

    “Why not Amadeus?” suggested Prem “It has great food and a great ambience and we can go for a long walk on Marine Drive……….”

    “Hmmm, ” said Neha, ” Done deal!”

    Prem looked pleased too. “So, should we meet up straight after work?”

    ” No, sweetie” said Neha, “You come and pick me up! “

    Arre, but this way we’ll get more together time.”

    “I have all the time in the world for you,” said Neha suggestively……..” I want this date to be perfect. I want to shower and change before we go out …….I’m sure you do too na?.”

    The next few days went by in a breeze and on Valentine’s Day when Neha entered the building alone , the watchman asked her, ” Kyon Madam, aaj akele?”

    Neha gave him a withering look . She was irritated as it is and didn’t want to deal with nosy questions. Just then her Blackberry began to vibrate and Prem’s  handsome face flashed on her screen..

    “What’s up sweetheart?” she asked, ” I waited for you at the corner but decided to go ahead when you didn’t show up.You’re coming na, today?  You’d better not ditch! ” she warned.

    “No, no,” protested Prem’s voice , crackling at the other end. ” “I’m  sorry, I had to rush to Delhi. It was a dire emergency , I promise. I didn’t even have time to call or text you. Can’t talk. I’ll text you when I get time. But don’t worry, I’ll be back tonight so our date still stands.”

    ” Don’t worry sweets,” she assured him, relieved that things were going as planned. ” I’ll be waiting. Take care. Love you !” she said as she kissed the phone goodbye.

    The rest of the day passed too slowly for comfort. To make matters worse, Neha kept worrying if the Delhi flight would be on time. It was notorious for being an hour late. “Thoughts become actions, ” she warned herself  and pushing all negative thoughts out of her mind, concentrated on how she imagined the evening would unfold : a romantic candle light dinner at “Amadeus”,  a long leisurely walk  arm in arm ,along the  sea side promenade, perhaps even a ride in a gaudy Victoria before going home to the ripe, red strawberries and   hot chocolate sauce, a Sula Red Zinfandel nestling in the copper pail wine cooler , the warm scented candles all over the house and the creamy silk sheets……..Aaah, she sighed, that would be the perfect end to a romantic evening and the beginning of a lifetime of bliss.

    All through the day they exchanged SMSs with Prem  giving her an hourly update of what he was doing. She was relieved to know that he’d got an earlier flight and as she left for home, could scarcely feel the ground beneath her feet.

    At 7.30, her doorbell rang and she tried not to be too hasty in opening the door. “Make the man wait a bit,” she remembered her old fashioned mum’s advice……. Doing a last minute check, she flicked her hair back,  picked up her clutch and mobile and opened the door, eager to jump into his arms and say Happy Valentine’s Day.

    ” Oh my God ! ” she shrieked, ” What happened? You look a wreck?” scarcely able to hide her disappointment and shock.

    Gone was the dapper young Prem and the romantic dinner date. In his place stood a scruffy man  in  a crumpled suit, his tie askance, the stale smell of aftershave and tobacco and a face that was hidden in a wild growth of  24 hour stubble!

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