• The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel Poster

    With limited movie options, my movie gang decided on “The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel” playing in town these days. Used to seeing India portrayed in very poor light by foreign film makers, I was not really expecting to come home happy . The film starts with an assortment of wrinkled and crinkled English retirees who are at a bit of a loose end in their lives. One of them a recently retired Judge has an agenda and wants to visit India with a specific purpose but the rest just happen to come to The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel by pure chance.

    The story line is predictable and reminiscent of EM Forster’s novels, where a group  of dysfunctional British tourists  land up tying the loose ends of their lives in a strange and exotic place. Predictably the hotel is not what it was set out to be, and the tourists already exposed to the inefficiencies of an Indian flight that never took off  and a bus ride into Jaipur are shocked with the in your face colour, clamour and crowds that are India. It is strange how as the movie progresses, the excessive crowds and filth are toned down with the final scene ending with an efficiently run retirement home managed with British thoroughness by Muriel Donnelly, a former housekeeper, played to perfection by Dame Maggie Smith.

    The movie is far from perfect though – the flight to Jaipur was cancelled because of bad weather conditions but the group landed up in a Jaipur that was decidedly sunny and bright.
    The bus that the group travelled in was not the only mode of transport available – they could have well taken the train which is far more comfortable or even a luxury bus.
    The servant who befriends Mrs. Donnelly ( or is it the other way round?) was decidedly not from Jaipur. Surely they could have got someone more authentic?
    Sunny calling his mother “mummyji” sounds facetious while Mummyji  (Lilette Dubey who is now getting typecast) herself, seemed too “tiptop” i.e.  sophisticated to be the mother of a so called hic manager.
    Considering that the guests had booked in advance, even the most basic hotelier would have arranged to make the rooms ready for his guests and not had beds covered in dust and dust covers.

    But India was just a backdrop for the main story – dealing with old age. Being old and being alone is a problem we all have to face. For this group of British retirees India was a good option but what about Indian old people? With many parents being abandoned by their children who have gone overseas for better prospects, and the breakdown of the traditional Indian joint family, we too will have to face this problem.

    With an excellent cast ( Judi Dench, Tom Wilkinson) and crisp dialogue which has you laughing in parts, is a must see for all to have an idea of what can happen in the future and even though the theme is depressing, I did come home with a smile.

    As Sunny (Dev Patel), the manager says ” it all turns out right in the end and if it isn’t right yet, it is not the end!”

  • Little do we know that mobile companies have been asking the citizens of Mumbai  to choose between their  money or their lives. And instead of  holding the gun, we are being terrorized by Mobile towers . This morning I got a phone call from a friend asking me to join a silent protest against Maheshwari Niketan which has allowed as many as 18 Mobile towers on its terrace.

    “All you need to do is wear a black T shirt and show up at 10”.

    I quickly got dressed and walked down the road wondering how many people were going to show up as expecting  even five people to leave their homes on a Sunday morning before 10 is like asking for the moon; so I was pleasantly surprised to find more than half a dozen people on the road holding banners for passersby to see.

    The demonstration was peaceful as promised with all the protesters wearing surgical masks and curious motorists leaning out of the window trying to read what was written as they passed by. The cops came and took “cognizance ” of the crowd and went into a huddle not knowing what else to do.  I asked one of the agitators what it was all about. It was quite simple really  – it seems that the telecom companies are flouting all norms of reasonably allowed radiation and exposing the entire populace of our country to this needless risk. This could easily be avoided by using towers emitting lower/less radiation, providing boosters to strengthen the signal and finally provide cellular phone services in a manner as provided all the world over. Of course it would mean more expensive mobile phone service but isn’t our own health priceless?

    So this was not simply a case of the Not In My Own Back Yard syndrome that residents of Peddar Road have been unfairly accused of , but truly an attempt to raise consumer awareness.

    • Mobile towers in Mumbai are installed in a very haphazard way because there aren’t proper guidelines or regulations in place. 
    • The radiating antennae are in clusters of 10 or 20 consuming much more power than required just so that each Mobile company gets higher coverage. 
    • The antennae emit a much higher wattage than permitted in most countries.
    Cops in a huddle

    The health hazards caused by the EMF radiation from Mobile towers include headaches, sleep disturbances, memory loss, fatigue, miscarriages, birth defects and deformities, heart problems, brain tumours and cancers like Leukaemia.

    Effects of radiation have been documented all over the world and we should learn from other’s mistakes/follies. Why should we wait for hundreds of people to die before we take corrective action?

    A snail on the road today

    What would you rather choose ? 
    pay more money today for safer mobile phone service?
    orpay with your life and health for cheaper mobile phone service?


  • Who shops for a trousseau these days?

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    Trousseau shopping is getting as unfashionable as  marriage these days. Young people openly flaunt their relationships smack in their parents’ faces. They  care two hoots about approval or appearances. They fly frequently flying around the world to be with each other and even attend events as couples.  It would seem that marriage is only fools or those or who want to become parents . The good thing about this is of course an obvious decrease in population  not to mention hundreds of calories and rupees saved in unnecessary wining and dining. It also means that no one shops for a trousseau these days.

    But the joys of organising a wedding are something else. 2011 was the happiest  year of my life. I literally tramped the streets of Mumbai looking out for band wallahs, priests, florists, caterers, beauticians .

    Organising a trousseau

    Since Anna Shetty is really petite, she was out sized by pret  so  her clothes landed up being “bespoke” by default more than design. While I enjoyed sourcing the fabric from shops nearer home to save time I missed shopping at my favourite place – Mangaldas Market , a place so bustling with colour and activity that shopping here literally gives you a high. Seated on plump mattresses covered in clean white sheets, shopkeepers greet you like a long lost friend. Ever so patient with your queries, they tirelessly take out bale after bale of fabric, drape it over their arm, pose a bit and even help you with suggestions of mix and match. Cheek by jowl with narrow lanes separating them, the over 200 shops are a designer’s delight.
    The shops are arranged according to their speciality – for instance in the first lane you will find sari vendors, in one lane you will only find dealers in suiting and shirting. Ved’s specialises in fabric for Salvars or”Punjabi Suits”. Some shops like Ruchika, Akanksha Silk, Vinod Collections specialise in silk. There are dupattawallas who have dupattas in every kind of fabric – cutwork, chiffon, crushed silk, pure cotton in different colours. They can also dye plain white to perfectly match your outfit. In the extra lane you will find shops selling the whitest of white embroidered fabric each one better than the next. Bales of linen, wool and pure cotton, shiny satin, fine muslin,pure polyester, fabrics with texture and sequins, prints and traditional weaves, brushed denim, block printed voiles.
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    New wares in old mores

    I discovered two dupattas in my cupboard that needed outfits to complement them.  I decided to go to Mangaldas Market. I set off after lunch and made a quick detour to Contemporary Arts & Crafts, an old Bombay shop now shifted from its Napean Sea Location to a newer larger space in Fort. On the ground floor of the Taj Building on D.N Road I was happy to re-discover this shop. All the merchandise here is made by Indian craftsmen drawing on their traditional skills  but with a sensitivity to modern tastes and needs. Thus, you will find decorative trays in Warli or Madhubani designs. Shoppers will be thrilled with their collection of traditionally quilted bed spreads quilted and block printed table mats and cloths . There are woven baskets and floor mats made out of jute and palm leaves, rag rugs and a whole lot more. The store  lacks the character of its old self. I thought that there was far too much furniture ( for sale of course) and I got the feeling I was in a godown with the way things were arranged. But I’m sure things will change and the old Contemporary feel will be recaptured in this new space. So do go and visit this old Mumbai staple. 
    Contemporary Arts and Crafts
    Ground Floor, Taj Building, Opposite Fort House,
    Corner of D.N.Road and Wallace Street, Fort,
    Mumbai 400001
    Tel:             022-22821295      
    Open Mon-Sat: 10.30am to 7.30pm
     

    Finally, the fabric market!

     
    On then, to the timeless Mangaldas Market. Getting off at the legendary Badshah Cold Drink House, I was pleasantly surprised to find the streets relatively clear of the hawkers pouring on to the road. Of course I still had to contend with  snapping clothes pegs in my face, swishing polyester antimacassars and cries of “madam madam what you want?”,
    Hand carts careered madly and I had to brave the  occasional  car coming down a street chockablock with people. I went down the main road past A to Z the purveyor of furnishing fabrics, to my target destination.  As a matter of curiosity,  I enquired about the Yoga mats on the side and was amazed to find them retailing cheaper than those in my neighbourhood stores!  I don’t know how non-slip these mats are they are but considering the momentary passion most of us have for exercise, they are worth buying  as long as you sustain your interest in  that twisted asan for more than a year. Only then is it worth investing in a better and more expensive version from a regular sports shop.
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    I entered the market from Ghadial Gully a deviation from my normal entry from Kamlesh’s shop in the 7th Lane. I had a particular fabric in mind and unfortunately couldn’t recall the name of the shop, so I went back and forth and back and forth till I finally found what I was looking for at Neepa Trading. Literally talking to a salesman over a row of customers sitting plonked on the chairs before me, I finally managed to unearth what I wanted – a slightly textured cotton to go with my dupattas . The salesman was really helpful – he not only showed me swatches to help with colours, but actually rolled out bale after bale of what he thought would be the perfect match. Finally ,I left with enough fabric to make what I hoped would be a perfect outfit.
    Finding some time on hand, I decided to indulge in my secret passion of wearing  white linen pyjama pants. These are perfect  for hot, summer days.  I  visited  Yogeshkumar & Brothers , the distributor for Linen Club, Birla’s Century Mills’premium range.

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    Many vendors sell Linen in this market. Watch out for  the polyester version that abounds.

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    Yogeshkumar keeps his best stuff upstairs in the mezzanine floor, accessed by a narrow, steep staircase on the side. Once there you will be amazed at the stuff he pulls out from a very unimpressive arrangement of fabric. I left the shop happy with my purchase and with a regret that I didn’t have need for more.

    Shopping tips

    • Since many shops at Mangaldas Market are wholesalers, the salesmen are  wary of retail shoppers who are just “passing time” . Very often  their demeanour comes across as rude and dismissive. But if you persist you, will find exactly what you are looking for and even more!
    • Be prepared to spend at least three to four hours .
    • Always ask for calling cards from the shops you’ve shopped from so that the next time round things are faster and easier.
    • Shopping after lunch at  2.30 was chaotic, but an hour later things had eased out and I could literally shop in peace.
    • The shops open around noon . Many of them are closed during the month of Paryushan which generally comes in the month of July/August.
    Here are the addresses of some of my favourite shops:
    Kamlesh Brothers
    Address: SHOP NO:14, MANGALDAS MARKET, 7TH LANE,, Mumbai, Maharashtra, India
    Phone: 912222064177
     
    YogeshKumar & Brothers
    Address : Shop No-4-5, 7th Lane Mangaldas Market
    Phone : 2202 2963
    Neepa Trading Co
    Address : Shop No 20, 7th Lane, Mangaldas Market
    Phone : 2201 0646
    Happy Shopping
    p.s.I also visited the furnishing fabric dealers across the road but I’ll deal with that another time!
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