• QUIT – Book Review

    QUIT – Book Review

    Nature is a great teacher

    It is said that Robert the Bruce , the Scottish King who fought the First War of Independence from England way back in the 14th Century was hiding in a cave when he saw a spider succeeding in making his web on his third attempt. This is a perfect example of the proverb “If at first you don’t succeed, try try try again”.

    Unfortunately, I have never been in a situation where I had to watch a spider for hours and perhaps I am a natural born quitter because there are any number of projects that I’ve started and abandoned.

    It was no wonder that I was attracted to a book called QUIT: THE POWER OF KNOWING WHEN TO WALK AWAY.

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    Although this book has been around for quite a while, I came across it only early this year because I had literally abandoned my passion for reading. Having reclaimed it once again, I decided to read at least two books a month.

    Why should you quit

    Having grown up on the principle that quitting is for cowards and that sticking to a goal will ultimately end in success, it comes as a surprise that Annie Duke advises us to quit.

    But Annie herself is an accomplished Poker player and knows the importance of quitting at the right time.

    That is a point most of us forget.

    Very often, we start a dream project whose paradigms change unexpectedly. At such a time, should we stay the course, change or just merely quit?

    When the chances of succeeding seem bleak, it makes most sense to quit.

    Success does not lie in sticking to things. It lies in picking the right thing to stick to and quitting the rest.

    Annie Duke

    Ego is normally the reason why we insist on persisting but it is important to know when to listen to one’s ego and when to listen to one’s instinct.

    why you should read this book

    Many books of no-fiction can be factual and boring but Annie’s breezy style make reading this book a pure delight. Using examples from different fields, she shows us how quitting at the right time can have a better outcome rather than persisting and meeting disaster.

    So go for this book. You won’t regret it.

    Ciao.

  • little boy lost & Parent found
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    Little did we imagine that Saturday evening would be one of the strangest evenings ever in my life.

    I was home doing my usual Lady-in-waiting act, this time waiting for Anna Shetty to give us our flu shots.

    Ms. Papaya was playing in the garden below with her friend. The friend’s mum and Prima Donna were sitting around keeping an eye on the kids.

    Suddenly, the two girls came up to them complaining of a little boy throwing his weight around. Not only was he very vocal but scared them by widening his mouth from ear to ear.

    The women followed their girls to where the boy was and realised that he was not from the building. When asked where his mother or attendant was, the little chap took off like a rocket and ran down the driveway. Luckily he stopped and came back up. He was equally lucky that no cars or scooters were around to knock him down.

    By then, the girls knew that something was wrong and began asking him questions. In the meanwhile I joined them because Prima Donna had spoken to Anna Shetty about being late for her ‘flu shot because of a lost little boy.

    The boy was well dressed and was very coherent. He spoke perfect English with just a tiny hint of a little boy lisp.

    He told us that he lived at GT Hospital which was quite a long way away and that he studied at GD Somani school and that he moved there because his earlier school had closed down.

    I asked him what he was doing so far away from home and he replied that he had come to a Chess Lesson further down our road.

    By this time, he was getting frazzled and refused to come home with us. It was getting dark, and our little girls were also getting quite anxious and worried. So I took them home and distracted them with some pizza, leaving Prima Donna and her friend, and the gaggle of watchmen who had gathered around to decide what to do with him.

    It was getting dark and the boy was quite adamant about not going anywhere with anyone. Should we call the police? Or should we put the boy in a taxi and drive up to GT Hospital and allow him to recognise his house?

    The police were dismissed because who knew what would happen to the boy then? And he said he did not want to get into anyone’s car.

    Just as the watchman was going off to get the local policeman, a young man came up the driveway. It had been an hour since the boy ran away from his mother, who was admonishing him for wetting his pants. Since then the father had walked into every building looking for his son and was relieved to finally find him safe but frightened.

    We were relieved too.

    How could the mother be so careless? If she knew that her little boy was a little rocket, she should have kept some identification in his pocket at all times – at least a phone number.

    One thing is for sure: the father must have given the boy and his mother a mouthful for being so careless, and I’m sure the boy will never run off again.

    Ciao

    • How was the mother walking with her child on a busy main road without holding his hand?
    • How did she not see where her boy ran?

  • Yet another new year.

    Yet another new year.

    3 months of 2025 have gone yet, I’m celebrating a New Year.

    We, in India have many New Years to celebrate. The Christian’s celebrate January 1st as New Year and the other Indians have different days to celebrate their own new year.

    Today, as a Maharashtrian, I bring in the year by hoisting a Gudi.

    The Gudi

    The Gudi is a piece of cloth draped around a stick and decorated with neemleaves ( for good health) Mango leaves, a sheaf of rice, a garland of sweet candy and flowers.

    It is mounted outside the entrance of the house to symbolise the unification of the Southern clans under the banner of King Shalivahan.

    Several years ago, when I used to mount the Gudi in my verandah, the vessel on top fell off and down 23 floors! I was horrified because such a thing had never happened before. I felt it was a portent of something bad to come. And sure enough, it did. That was the year when the freakiest things happened, chief among them being the 9/11 attack in New York. It affected our family because my daughter couldn’t return home for her Winter Break, setting off a completely different path for our family.

    Since then, I’ve kept the Gudi indoors.

    But there are lots of other Indians celebrating the start of the new lunar calendar. Some celebrate it as Ugadi, some as Navreh some as Cheti Chand.

    There are still some more new year celebrations in mid-April : Baisakhi and Bihu.

    These are just some of the New Years celebrated in India. There are many more which means that all year round, there is some Indian who has a New Year’s Day!

    Happy New Year.

    Ciao,

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