• Goodbye 2024: Hello 2025

    At the beginning of this year my mother had a premonition that it would be the worst year of her life. Since my parents hadn’t brought in the New Year the way they normally did with friends and family, she wanted to go to a special breakfast with my dad as they had done 68 years ago to celebrate their engagement. Unfortunately, the driver didn’t show up so they had to cancel the plan. My mother saw this as a sign that everything would go amiss.

    And sure enough, it did.

    By the end of October, they had both passed away.

    Throughout the year there were plenty of downs. Little Po got Scarlett Fever, a disease almost unheard of in this part of the world. The much-awaited Modular kitchen was a nightmare with Makwana doing its best to ensure they got everything WRONG. The small household repairs turned out to be major and we were in disarray for 5 1/2 months! And this was during the period I made frequent trips to visit my parents. So it was no wonder that things didn’t go as planned.

    However, the year had its good side too. I got to spend more time with my parents in this year than I did in the past 40 years! I am grateful that I could make the frequent dashes to Pune. Little Po learnt to read music during the time he was recuperating and has consequently discovered his passion.

    Prima Donna and Anna Shetty had another year of good work and I lost a few kilos which gave me hope that my stubborn fat could be chased away.

    But the best part of the year has been the de-cluttering. I have an almost new house and a brand new kitchen with which to welcome the New Year.

    I hope things settle down. I hope I stop playing hide and seek with the things I can’t remember keeping away. And I hope the new year brings peace and happiness in the world

    Happy New Year all.

    Ciao

  • Christmas Magic

    Isn’t is strange that Christmas has a universal appeal.

    Shops are decorated with tinsel and stars, shiny baubles, angels and even fake snow. I find it fascinating to see the Christmas decorations go up year after year, each one grander and more exotic than the next.

    What I find fascinating is that Christmas is celebrated worldwide—at least the decorations are put up in almost every corner of the world. Whether it is a marketing ploy or just joy that the year is getting over, the whole world seems to be engulfed by the Christmassy feeling of Santa Claus, the Christmas Star, Christmas trees, presents, fairy lights, carols, mulled wine, Christmas pudding, Secret Santas and, of course, the Christmas Eve dance. With all the festivities and celebrations, most people forget it is a religious observation. For many devout or practising Christians, it is a time to reaffirm their faith. Of course, they have their celebrations but it is not without prayer and contemplation.

    But I’m not complaining. Last week I s[pent a delightful evening with friends singing carols we had sung back in school and today I’m of to a scrumptious, sumptuous Christmas Brunch with my friends.

    Merry Christmas all!

    Ciao

  • Doggie Sitting ITI

    Doggie Sitting ITI

    In the middle of this year, a stray adopted Anna Shetty and her family. Being intrinsically snooty, I didn’t approve of this at all. Growing up, stray dogs were called pariahs ( parriers as it was mispronounced) ,pies signifying their mixed ancestry, mutts or street dogs. Today, like all words that are upcycled, and gentrified, these dogs are referred to as ‘Indie’ or ’Rescue’ animals giving them greater acceptability and respectability. In fact owners of such animals are considered noble for saving a poor stray from a certain death by the local government.

    But the minute I saw Iti (as she was subsequently christened) her imperial bearing impressed and charmed me. With her head high and looking haughtily with her honey-brown eyes, her camel brown coat and nose speckled with pink, she looked like an aristocratic matron out for a morning walk. It was hard to resist her charm and before I knew it, was appointed her official babysitter when Anna Shetty and her family went out of town.

    “She’d be shattered if we leave her in a kennel,” she explained to me, the first time I had to doggie sit. “It’s been barely a month since we’ve adopted her and leaving her in a kennel would make her feel she’s abandoned once more .”

    I was a bit sceptical with this argument but agreed to look after her especially as Anna Shetty’s house-help would be staying with us too. We managed pretty well though we went through a leash in two days and a stymied attack on my memory foam pillow.

    This time around, I was less hesitant in looking after her because by now, Iti had been through a series of training and counselling sessions and seemed to have dealt with the devils that had haunted her.

    Spooked

    She walked into my house confidently and showed the same poise when I took her down in the daytime. However, in the evening, the friendly dogs from our building came up to greet her enthusiastically barking their joy. Unfortunately, Iti totally freaked and she managed to wiggle out of the collar over her and bolt! My heart sank. Where would I find her? Would she be at the back or on the main road?

    Luckily, a watchman spotted her standing confused and bewildered in the driveway. Frantically, I called out to her. She bounded towards me and leapt into my arms. I had to pacify her with cuddles and words of reassurance while I slipped back the collar and carried her home.

    That one incident was enough to spook her and she refused to come down until literally dragged. It was awful pulling her and I couldn’t make the collar any tighter so I got her a harness. Even if I had to pull her, this way I wouldn’t be hurting her neck.

    Taking her down became easier but she was still reluctant. So last night I asked Hubby Dear to accompany us for our post-dinner stroll. His presence reassured her and she was once again her confident self as she strutted around with us. When Hubby Dear lagged behind, she waited for him. And when we returned home, she happily went to the bed he had laid out for her. That’s when I realised, she felt secure because HE was around. I was miffed by this very obvious gender discrimination.

    But way past midnight, she jumped on top of me and gently barked to indicate her need to go down. I immediately shot out of bed and took her down.

    After doing her business, I was expecting to be dragged home but she had other plans. Knowing that the other dogs were fast asleep, she decided midnight was the best time for a walk.

    Midnight Walk

    Luckily she kept the walk short and we returned home.

    Ciao

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