When it is time to give up #FridayReflections


There comes a time in your life when you know it is foolish to go on. 

Tonight we were scheduled to travel to the States. We had tickets in hand for two flights over 9 hours each with an 8 hour layover in Amsterdam. Since we were travelling with Ms Papaya, a 14 month old, the journey was planned with military precision. Right down to the pickup at the other end with the mandatory car seat. 

 Two days ago Ms Papaya developed a fever which was worrisome. We thought it was ‘ a case of the erupting tooth’. But to err on the side of caution, we took her to the doctor. She said that we really had no cause for concern and a good dose of anti biotic would allow us to carry on. 

We were all ready to print out our boarding passes when we discovered that she still had a fever. Now we were faced with a dilemma  : to go or not to go. We decided not to go ahead. 

One part of us said ‘NEVER GIVE UP’. The other part whispered ‘fools rush in where angels fear to tread’. 

Sorry, dear Winnie. We preferred not to be fools. 

Do you dear reader, think we were right to give up? 

I’d like to think it was a tactical retreat

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Battles have been won at the cost of hundreds of lives. Is it worth never giving up then? 

I’m linking this post to #FridayReflections hosted by Sanch Vee and Corinne.

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14 responses to “When it is time to give up #FridayReflections”

  1. Anamika Agnihotri Avatar

    Travelling with a sick baby can call for trouble. I hope nothing is lost with missing the flight.

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    1. Bellybytes Avatar

      Nothing really . Thank God.

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  2. RT Avatar
    RT

    It is a tactical retreat. We will be successful at Take 2 in a week’s time. Thanks for being such a trooper :)

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  3. Dashy Avatar

    That’s an interesting way to look at it. It depends of course, on the circumstances. Precaution is always a good option, as long as it doesn’t prevent us from trying at all.

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    1. Bellybytes Avatar

      Yes there’s always a thin line between doing and not doing

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  4. Vishal Bheeroo Avatar

    After all, what’s the fun without treading the path masses fear. I believe in taking chances and that’s how we grow.

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    1. Bellybytes Avatar

      Yes my philosophy too . But traveling with a sick child ?

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      1. Vishal Bheeroo Avatar

        Yes, it can be very tough and I agree to that. The child will be so uncomfortable!

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  5. Rajlakshmi Avatar

    With kids it’s very difficult to say. You never know what can go wrong. It’s better to stay safe than sorry. Hope she is better now.

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    1. Bellybytes Avatar

      Yes she’s fine but all of us at home are feeling under the weather ….

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  6. Ramya Abhinand Avatar

    It’s always situation based. There are sometimes when we should not give up and keep going, looking ahead. But when it comes to a sick child, well, nothing else matters. in this case, your decision seems to be the right one.

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    1. Bellybytes Avatar

      I’m relieved to hear that because as it turns out, I was down too !

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  7. Esha Avatar

    I do believe in taking chances every once in a while but with babies, I feel it is always wise to err on the side of caution. So, perhaps, this was the best thing to do given the situation. I hope the child is feeling better now and things are improving.

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    1. Bellybytes Avatar

      Yes it turns out it was the best decision because I was down with a bug soon after. Keeping fingers toes and eyes crossed that everything works out fine..

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