• Today I realised that blogging is a mug’s game.

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    You could call me a slow learner.

    After almost

    10 years of blogging,

    around 7 years of being a member of Blogadda,

    about 5 years of being a part of Indiblogger,

    3 years of participating in the #A to Z Challenge ,

    several years of linking up with #SkywatchFriday and #WriteTribe

    and around

    2 months of linking up with #UltimateBlogChallenge,

    I find that the figures are dismal.

    I have only 137 subscribers on WordPress, 112 on Twitter and a handful on Facebook.

    My best views so far have been 205 on a single day way back in November 2015 and the post that was visited most that day was my ABOUT page.

    My last effort of generating more traffic was participating in the recently concluded month long #A to Z Challenge in April. Here too the statistics were not really worth the effort.

    So I put out a question to the Universe and only ONE blogger responded with a positive feedback on what I should do to improve my blog ergo generate more interest and traffic.

    Firstly, she told me not to bother about the numbers but to just write from the heart. That makes good sense.

    But what she told me next is something that has been bothering me for a while – personalisation.

    Will an identity reveal affect blog traffic?

    [Tweet “Should I really come out of my shell and share more about myself in terms of images and identity?”]

    Like many bloggers, my blog is often my sounding board – a place where I share my doubts, anxieties and joys. Often when I read similar posts on other blogs I often wonder OMG what a whiner! Is anybody out there really interested in listening to your tales of woe? Is everybody’s life truly a soap opera? Besides, my life is not that chaotic or tragic or exciting. I am just a normal, every day person leading a normal every day life. So are people really interested in knowing the face behind the words? Will it really make a difference if I come out of my shell?

    Do let me know your thoughts on this.

    Does sharing more information about yourself really affect your blog traffic?

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    This year was the third year in succession that I participated in this challenge. Once again I was a reluctant participant, mainly because despite my previous attempts  I didn’t find any appreciable change in either my traffic or number of followers. However, being perennially optimistic, I decided to give it one more try.

    Reflections of another challenge over

    I must say it was fun. The thrill of finding out what each person is going to write about especially the letters X, Y and Z.

    During the Theme reveal, I had already decided which blogsI was going to visit. My regular pals from the Write Tribe featured high on my list.

    I would actually wake up earlier than the rest of the household to quickly spruce up my post and pin . Then I  would eagerly  read and visit as many bloggers’ posts as I could.

    But now that the #A to Z Challenge 2017 is over, I can finally stop feeling guilty every time I glance at my phone or creep away to type my post for the day.

    [Tweet “Honestly the biggest challenge has been to keep up with the posting, the reading, the commenting and the sharing without the stealth and guilt”]

    Did any of you feel that?

    Living in a four generational household is tough .  And when the weather gets hotter and the toddlers are at home, it does become difficult to keep to  deadlines. In addition if you have to deal with a lousy wi-fi and fat fingers that type in the wrong letters when you work on an iPhone, it gets more even more challenging.

     What I liked best

    The Blogs I visited were  motivational and also those related to  food and travel. I also enjoyed the fiction and poetry ones. There were several posts that struck me but the post that really touched  me was Roshan Radhakrishnan’s story of Frank Stigler, the WW1 German fighter pilot who let his sitting duck target get away. This example of chivalry is extinct in today’s war and I found it hard to keep back the tears as I read out this post .

    I have always been an armchair traveller and I discovered a wonderful storyteller in Shalzmojo. From the icy plains of Ladakh to the tropical heat of Cochin, I loved her anecdotes  about Japanese dancing at the Camel fair ,  the unspeakable toilets and her favourite hotels. Her fabulous photographs made it hard for me to hold back  and book a ticket to an exotic locale! I  looked forward to her posts every day. I was specially impressed by her post for X  . Read it and you will find out why.  I must thank her for being one of the few who regularly visited my posts and commented religiously too. In fact, I had wanted to give up in the last week and it was only her encouragement that made me hang on. Thanks Shalz.

    What worked for me

    I naturally gravitate towards posts written by older bloggers and thoroughly enjoyed the daily conversation between Bernadette and her old mother in the Diary of a Dublin Housewife . Bernadette is my new find in this challenge.

    Another person whose blog resonated with me was Mayuri whose tales of food reminded me of many shared food memories.

    I loved following Debbie D’s musical memories woven with tales of her boarding school days and her budding romance.

    Kalpana ‘s stories of a divorce were interesting without being mawkish, Rajlakshmi’s body contorting Yoga had me envying her lithe body. But it also inspired me to re-start my own Yoga practice and even though I’m far from being my old supple self, the thought of looking at yet another mind boggling pose of hers kept me going.

    Two young ladies who I’ve been regularly visiting for the past year have been Twinkling Tina and Kohl-Eyed Me. Sadly I couldn’t be very regular with Tina’s blog especially since she was playing the devil and tempting me with eye catching pictures of easy to make no bake desserts.

    Sunjhini’s daily tips on Art and Art journalling have been calling out to me since the beginning of this year as I’ve always wanted to be a weekend painter if not a regular artist. So I was glad to read her succinct tips on how to be a weekend artist.

    I’m not into literature noir but couldn’t keep away from Shilpa Garg’s Flash Fiction. I also loved Anami’s posts and Sanch’s poetry.  Parul’s posts were always enjoyable though some of her posts were a bit to strident

    Roma’s up and down romance was a bit of a read simply because I found the names of the hero and heroine confusing. But it did keep my interest and I followed this till the end.

    Mithila Menezes is truly Ms. Fabulus whose writing skills are awe inspiring . This year her series on Blogging was something I tried to attempt in the UBC Challenge in October last year. But she did a much better job of this topic which I’m afraid I abandoned out of sheer boredom.

    Thanks to Fabida Abdulla, I began to see the old classics in a new light. I have already gone to the library and borrowed some golden oldies.

    This is beginning to sound like a Vote of Thanks but honestly, if it weren’t for the encouragement of Anami, Menaka, The Lady in Read, Upasana and many others whose names I can’t recollect, I would have given up this challenge in week 1 itself. I’m sorry for not mentioning you all personally but I truly appreciate your visits, comments and shares.

    Thanks for all the love

    Shilpa Gupte is a blogger who didn’t participate in this challenge but she was a regular visitor and kept cheering me on with her motivating comments. Thanks Shilpa ! So also, I’d like to thank Dahlia who is a daily writer without being part of the challenge. I discovered her through a comment and was fascinated by her blog. So I’m a regular visitor to her blog now

    What I liked least   and what didn’t?

    Unfortunately I’m technologically challenged and couldn’t figure out the threads and how/where to leave links to my post. Naturally this was very frustrating .

    As usual, I found that there were bloggers who didn’t bother visiting my blog  or acknowledging my comments . This was very disappointing and disheartening. 

    My own observations

    Well, I stick by my observation that the #A to Z Challenge has very little if any effect on blog traffic and popularity.

    Surprisingly the post that attracted the most views was the very first post on Ahimsa or Silk without Violence  that had 91 views. On the other hand, I expected my post on Ritu Kumar and the Design Revolution to resonate with bloggers but sadly this post had only 46 views

    So if I had to summarise the blog stats in April  2017 , after blogging EVERY DAY and posting regularly I had 1045 visitors and 2234 views .

    If this is not dismal, what is?

    There is something I’m doing wrong out here :

    I do hope someone will give me some positive feedback on how I should/could improve.

    My apologies to those whose blogs I have visited erratically. It was hard trying to access blogs on a dodgy wifi on an iPhone screen…..

    But thanks once again to every one especially the A to Z Challenge organisers.  I don’t know if I’ll join you again next year …….

    Right now, I’m going to take a break .

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  • Cakes make occasions special

    There are times when you can’t be present at someone’s special occasion. Or there are times when you want to make some one special feel really special. It could be your mom, your dad, a favourite aunt or uncle. It may be to celebrate a difficult deal you and your team have just sealed. Or it may be just to let someone know that you’re thinking of them.   But how?

     Trishana Kashyap  who is guest posting on my blog today  is giving us the run down on how to order mouth-watering cakes that can make any occasion truly special! FernsnPetals a specialty florist and gift shop makes this possible with cake deliveries in India and abroad. 

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    Over to Trishana :

    If you want to celebrate any occasion, cakes are an inevitable part of the celebration. They are available in wide range of designs, shapes and flavours that can leave people asking for more. You can’t imagine the celebrations of any important event without the presence of cakes.

    To take the madness and indulgence of cake lovers to a new level, here are the few exciting cakes that needs to be tasted for a divine feeling. Check out some of these amazing designer cakes as stated below:

    Special Chocolate Cake- Who would not love being pampered with an amazing chocolate cake that is filled with the goodness of chocolates? It will leave a distinct and unforgettable taste on your taste buds. The irresistible cake comes in various flavours like Chocolate Truffle Royale, Rich Velvety Chocolate Cake, Heart Shape Truffle Cake, Chocolate Hearts Cake, Chocolate Cake with White Roses, Black Forest Gateau and other such delicious flavours. There are various online cake shops that can offer you multiple cake varieties which are unable to be found in any cake shops in Mumbai and other locations.

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    Truffle Cake

    Cake with a Velvet touch- Those who want to enjoy a smooth and unforgettable taste needs to go for this Red Velvet Heart Cake. It is soft and melt easily in mouth giving you a delectable experience. There are other variants like Red Velvet Fresh Cream Cake or Red Velvet Photo Cake that are a pure delight to your taste buds.

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              A red velvet photo cake

    Cake with the goodness of fruits- If you love fruits and their goodness, the amazing Fruit cake is a wonderful option to try. You can enjoy a variety of flavours in Fruit Cakes such as Mango Cake, Exotic Pineapple Cake, Special Fresh Fruit Cake, Fruit of Forest and others that can easily amaze any fruit lovers without any problem.

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    Effervescent Fruit Cake

    Special Designer Cakes- Sometimes, people are not amused by simple ordinary looking cakes and this is one of the cases especially with the young kids. They want something extraordinary that is derived from any cartoon characters, super hero, a toy or any other things from the day-to-day life. A lot of cake shops can offer best cakes in Mumbai in the form of Mickey Mouse Cake, Spiderman Cake, Red Ferrari Cake, Disney Cake, Camera Cake, Barbie Doll Cake, Pooh Tiger Cake, Pinki the Owl Cake and others that can easily satisfy the childhood fantasies and imagination of the kids.

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        Mickey Mouse Designer Cake

    Cute lovely cupcakes collection- If you are tired with normal cakes, you can have a wonderful surprise in the form of these lovely cupcakes. Some of the mouth-watering cupcakes are Chocolate Cupcakes, Blue Pink Fantasy Cupcakes, Cute Red Velvet Cupcakes, Chocolate Star Cupcakes, Tripple Chocolate Cupcakes, Ferrero Rocher Cupcakes and others that are an exciting treat for the kids and elders alike.

    Don’t miss out any celebration and make it more enjoyable with the help of these delicious cakes that can be found in any cake shops in Mumbai, Delhi, Bengaluru and others parts of India. So, gorge on these yummy cakes without any guilt.  

                 

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    Blue Fantasy Cupcake

     

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