• “If it were anywhere else in the world, this would have been marketed as a great tourist attraction”

    This was the oft repeated refrain almost from my cousin from America as we wandered through the environs of the Pune Municipal Market or MANDAI (as we knew it) , situated in the heart of the city. While growing up, holidays meant spending time with family and almost every holiday was with either the grandparents or one of the uncles and aunts in different parts of the country.

    More often than not our holidays were spent in Pune especially when my father was posted there and the family came to visit us! Most of the time we spent hanging out, playing make believe grown up games, eating tonnes of Alphonso mangoes and as we grew older cycling around and swimming at the pool. Those were the days before malls and phones so the highlight of our holidays would be the pilgrimage almost to a quaint little bazaar called Tulshibag.

    In my little girl world, this was a huge,cavernous shop which was filled with exciting little pots and pans in stainless steel, gleaming brass and wood – replicas of kitchen ware just the way it was in my granny’s kitchen. How I loved to take home a pot or two to add to my growing collection of kitchen toys. There’d be beads and bangles and bells and all kinds of things that seemed magical and exotic.

    So when I was visiting Pune last week and my mother asked me to run an errand for her in this area, I readily agreed. My cousin and a nephew agreed to come and we hopped into a rickshaw that puttered down to Vishrambagwada and the Chitale outlet at BajiRao Road.

    Chitale Bandhu

    Chitales of Pune are legendary – and no visit to Pune is complete without picking up at least 1/4 kg of their famous mango barfi. But there are other delicacies too like anarse, bakarwadi, puran poli, ladoo and of course the peda for which I had to make the trip. Originally a small little shop, Chitale has now spread to California and I’ve heard to Singapore as well so that people can partake of their shrikhand and other goodies far away from Indian shores. This shop is also known for its extreme salesmanship : upon entering each person is given a flat token which has to be shown to every counter that you make a purchase from as every item is sold in different counters. This is to avoid overloading one salesman with multiple orders. So once you give your order to the salesman, he weighs the product and then punches in everything in the computer and scans it on your token. Thus , much like monopoly, you pass through every counter and when you reach the cashier, hand in your token and voila- your order comes up on his screen, you pay the money and exit with a pleased look on your face. Chitale’s is known for its dour salesmen who absolutely refuse to open the shop a minute before opening time and likewise down the shutters at the appointed time. Unmindful of their almost boorish behaviour, they don’t offer even the hint of a smile, even when you compliment them on their wonderful products. Incidentally the same cousin told me of his last visit to the shop when he asked for bakarwadi at 11.15, just 15 minutes after opening time. He was told to look at the time which translated as “It’s too late – the stocks are over!”

    So you would be well advised to be there well before the shop opens for business.

    Bajirao Road, Pune 777,
    Sadashiv Peth,
    Pune – 411030.
    Maharashtra, India
    Tel: +91-20-24473208 / 24475043
    Fax: +91-20-24490031
    Deccan Gymkhana, Pune
    759/54, Deccan Gymkhana,
    Pune – 411004.
    Maharashtra, India
    Tel: +91-20-25671748
    Email: info@chitalebandhu.in
    Incidentally it is shut from 1.00 -3.30 every day and for the whole day on Sunday.

    Peshwa Pune

    We set off at around half past three while the rest of the city was still enjoying their afternoon siesta hoping to reach there before the roads got jammed. But surprisingly at the end of Sacahpir street and towards the beginning of Laxmi Road, we ran into an impromptu fish market and couldn’t avoid the crowds.

    However, Chitale’s had kept our order ready and within minutes we were out. Across the road we bought some Puja related stuff before we walked down towards TulshiBag.

    I must say I was surprised to find that this was not the Tulshibag of my imagination. It actually turned out to be a regular homestead accessed by a traditional doorway – with a high threshold and stout wooden doors with brass handles. This 300 year old home of the Tulshibagwale Sardar (noblemen bestowed this title along with a parcel of land by a grateful Peshwa) is home to three temples – the main one being the Ram Mandir with the other two dedicated to Ganpati ( the favourite of the Peshwa) and Hanuman. Over the years the temples have fallen into a sad state of neglect but luckily theyare now being restored to their former glory. We could see glimpses of their grandeur in the fine grained in  teak pillars with typical carvings and a painted ceiling. Equally fascinating was compound walls with paintings from the Ramayan and the huge drum that  peeped out from behind the frescoed walls of the nagarkhana .

    The shops are  with their tiny brass pots now share shelf space with plastic and modern toys but the magic still remains. Outside the market you can find bangles and beads and fine examples of traditional jewelry in mock gold. You will find balloons that squeak,  masalas, pagdis and stitched saris – in short everything for a costume party that will equip you to join the Peshwas at a traditional do!

    This neighbourhood is worth a walk through but a word of warning – be prepared to walk as cars cannot stop or park. Also remember to hire the rickshaw for the entire trip as rickshaws are hard to come by and you may well find drivers flatly refusing to take you anywhere you want to go be it a mile away or just round the corner!

    The shops are open all day long save for the afternoon siesta time and you may just find everything there too kitschy but I would recommend this short trip for a hint of Peshwa history.

  • P signs and Public toilets

    While women have the G spot, men have the Pee spot , particularly older men who find it impossible to hold on especially when stuck in traffic. Waiting on Sandhurst bridge one afternoon I came across this strangely signed public urinal. Does this mean that the women use the male urinal while the men use the Jents toilet ? Or does this reflect yet another example of poor spelling where male actually means FEMALE while Jents denotes GENTLEMEN? In which case why are women referred to as females and not ladies?

    This is surely a case of gender discrimination as well where women are considered mere females while all men are considered gentlemen not to mention the fact that the gentlemen’s facilities are described as the more polite ‘toilet’ rather than the crude sounding ‘urinal’ that is used for the women’s! 
  • Reunions and Nostalgia

    On the 19th of December our class got together for our 40th reunion. Of course this didn’t mean that it was the 40th meeting since we graduated from high school but it was 40 years since we had finished school. We had our first reunion 25 years  after leaving school and I can never get over the shock of seeing  our 16 year old classmates whom we remembered as callow youth with pimples and adolescent angst writ on our faces completely transformed. Some of the boys had come into their own and were devastatingly handsome while other had begun achieving that look of distinction that  grey hair and maturity imparts. Most of the  girls had grown into young mothers , happy with their added pounds. Some of our classmates weren’t as lucky and had aged beyond belief with frazzled hair and more than excess weight. So I was actually looking forward to this reunion with all of us in our Golden Years. Sadly I had to give this event a miss as I was in the middle of a family reunion that was happening for a wedding and an engagement. But the meeting of the graduating class spurred on a wave of nostalgia that generated a WhatsApp group that has been so active that in the past few days we’ve communicated more enthusiastically than we did  in all the years that we were at school!

    With all the nostalgia going around especially around Christmas time which we all remember as a time of holidays that started with our last Christmas Assembly where we sang Christmas Carols with great gusto. I’ve received several Christmas Greetings on this group and I’d particularly like to share one of them :

    When  Santa had a  close shave

    The kids were excited as Santa was coming to school as he did every year during the Christmas Assembly. There was a crispness in the air and the children filed in excitedly (the younger ones who looked forward to their gift of walnuts and apples and the older ones who were looking forward to the days off). The children joined in with the choir singing  Christmas Carols in between the Lesson and the Sermon delivered by the  School Prefects. After “Hark the Herald” the Head Master would give his usual address before school broke off for the holidays – reminding us all that we should use this time to reflect, assess and renew our energies so that we came back the next term afresh and ready to take on the last term before the academic year ended. And then Mrs. Da Costa played the opening bars of the familiar tune of Jingle Bells and the choir burst into joyous song. 
    Despite the fact that there’s never been snow in Mumbai, Santa always came dressed in a cherry, red woolen suit topped with hat and boots! And there he was, entering from the back gate to a flurry of cheers and wild clapping. Slowly he came to the front of the hall accompanied by some of the senior boys who helped him bring his sacks. One by one the children filed past him, shaking his hand and taking a walnut or apple that Santa pulled from his sack. Everything was going well till Ankita who had just heard from her older brother that Santa didn’t exist, decided that she’d rather touch Santa’s lovely white beard than just shake his hand, to test whether it really was Santa or an imposter.  And horror of horrors, when she touched his beard, her little fingers got entangled and when she pulled her hand away, the beard almost came in her hand! Luckily Santa had his wits about him and he Ho-ho-ed his way through this near disaster by quickly wrapping his scarf around him and pushing the beard back in place. He gave Ankita a conspiratorial wink and reassured her that all was well in the world. 
    That  was  a close shave indeed for Santa who would never have been able to live down the shock of being exposed as Mr. Sharma the Senior Chemistry Master!!!!
    This post is a part of #WillYouShave activity at BlogAdda in association with Gillette

    So Merry Christmas all of you !

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